I’ve delayed my holiday greetings because I’m well aware of the traditional digital rules: stay upbeat, stay consistent, and always stay “on.” Social media is a gallery of curated perfection, but life isn’t. Life is filled with unexpected twists, curveballs and betrayals. After a quiet Christmas here in Vienna, I was hit with a sucker punch that has left my heart broken and my future plans in free-fall. It is a stark reminder that while technology accelerates, human biology remains the same. When the rug is pulled out from under us, we can’t act like computers and optimize our way
A Note on Stillness and Starting Over